Making the point that what really matters is follow-through, not the choice itself, and that this is particularly true for relationships:
When I think about my time in college, the impact it had had nothing to do with my selection. I happened to meet a few good people, did my part to build friendships and learn together, and those things had an outsize impact on my life. With dating, the tenor of the relationship and the work we put in will be the deciding factor, not which of several compatible women I end up with.
people I admire
Bret Easton Ellis